What has changed?

well, I’m finally back. Been months since I update the blog. Working mum’s life have been hectic.

so what’s up?

bun has started walking, first tooth came out. Got a few virus here and there. finally his school’s teacher made me go back earlier to fetch him.

mil is being a total crazy woman. Bil is a total idiot. Kept snapping photos of bun and the way he snap photos was as if he is in a zoo taking pictures of an animal. Told bil to stop because I didn’t like it. Bil, being the idiot he is, asked why. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Is it that difficult to respect people’s wishes? Anyway, mil was upset because her darling son was told off. Talk about 没家教，bil is a classic example and mil is the classic example of 慈母多败儿. Doesn’t matter that her darling son is being an idiot, she will jump into his defence even when he is in the wrong. 🤦🏻‍♀️

mil thought she was bun’s grandma and decided that she has a say in everything. Until I put her in her place and she went boohoohoo, and said that she wasn’t respected. Well, if you are not going to be respectful in your speech and respect boundaries, don’t be surprised if someone puts you in your place. 😏

oh well, been months since I visited. Mil told lehub “hope your wife treasures those around her.” I was like, how disillusion is she? Of course I treasure people around me. My parents, my siblings, my friends. But, she seems to think she is very important to me. 😂 but she is not.

oh well, she just thought that my courtesy means she is a VIP. And that explains why she thinks when she throws fits, I will be a sitting duck to her wrath. How naive! 🤭

These few months are the best months ever! I am so much happier because I don’t have to entertain stupid people, and not laugh at their stupidity.

oh oh! Did I mentioned that mil told lehub that he has his siblings and her to fall back on? I was laughing about it. Why? Because lehub DIDNT want to go visit her himself! Even he is turned off by her excessive nagging. 🤭

I told lehub, “eh u have your mummy and siblings leh! Guess what? I have daddy, mummy and sister. If not enough, I have my aunties and cousins. Richest one is CEO of a listed company. Not to famous one also boss of a SME. Why? Now want to compete who has more money? Eh u know very well, I hit 1m and well otw to 2m in saving Liao Hor? Want to fight, 来咯！”

Well, sometimes my mil is like a 🐸 in her own well, and doesn’t understand 人外有人，天外有天。oh oh! Did I mention that sil now works at dancebyte and is earning big bucks? Or so she claims? Perhaps mil thinks sil can contribute to the fight for custody. 🤣

sigh, my ignorant mil really make my toes laugh 😆